You aren’t going to Hell for disobedience. This is not a religion.

the Young Soul* sometimes have this way of thinking: “If a ball is red, then everything that is red is a ball.” This is to say that just because I mention God, spirit, reincarnation, and other typically religious concepts doesn’t make what I write a religion. This is not a set of rules anyone NEEDS TO enforce for it to remain worth its own existence. If someone is enforcing these rules, they are going against the very principle of my own character and everything I’ve ever written about. How can you enforce volunteering anyway?

My writing is a self-help guidebook, not holy scripture.

My writings are a comprehensive guide to life and relationships. You can ignore it if you want. Your friends can ignore it. That said, there is a natural punishment for ignoring good advice: your life won’t get any better, but it certainly can get worse. It can also get significantly worse if your friends you had in a leash take heed, but you don’t. The natural punishment for ignoring good advice is all that I’m promising. There won’t be a Hell you go to, there’s no additional punishment for “disobedience,” but you won’t find true love, you’ll always live a lie, and you will be the last one to find anything real in your life… You’ll still find it because once you are the only one left being stupid, the person standing next to you is bound to be your True Emotion Mirror – probably equally idiotic… Then you two are the only two people on the only remaining dating site, hehe.

Ignore it all you want. Find loopholes all you want. And as you’re finding loopholes, your friends will be observing an asshole. Natural consequence.

Alternatively, you can just ignore all reality and focus on lying to yourself better.

The punishment for getting this wrong is ignorance of why your relationships keep breaking. All I’ve tried to do is to help you improve your relationships. Still, if you want to live a happy life, there’s another route to it: Ignore all reality, remap everything that is said to you to mean whatever you want it to mean, and Bob’s your auntie, your life is perfect. It’s a bit fragile, given that you have to rely on other people playing along quite a bit, but even then, you can always decide on an ego-stroking lie to tell yourself about why they bailed. They were probably just jealous, and the intensity of their feelings scared them, right? They were just not cut out for true love yet. Nothing to do with you being an utter cunt.

You can also find plenty of other sources that express similar or the same ideas.

The other thing is that this may not be the only working philosophy in the matter at all. There are multiple good sources for the same result. This is somewhat the genius’ guide to living with idiots rather than something that works for the general public. That said, my philosophy contains a lot of new, never-before-expressed observations about human nature. You’ve survived this long without knowing them so… Maybe they aren’t relevant at all, maybe they are. Who knows without checking it out.

I am a Old Souls*. Therefore, I am heavily biased toward other the Old Souls*. I’ve repeatedly told the Young Soul* that this isn’t really for them, but they tend to just take it as a “you can’t have it; therefore, you must have it” statement. You CAN have it; it’s just that it’s like insisting on fixing your Vespa with an instruction manual for a Ferrari. Rather pointless, but fuck, owning a Ferrari manual must feel good.

My theories are not going to make a pleasant reading for the Young Soul*, what I can tell. That said, I have idiot-friend-proofed it for the Old Souls*. THEY WILL live by it, and that’s just as good for me as the Young Soul* suddenly growing a conscience.

Speaking of conscience and religions

Religions are attempting to somewhat force people to live according to what is the right thing to do. My philosophy focusses on guiding people to do what is the selfish thing to do, while mitigating the influence of other selfish people. I do not like to rely on other people’s conscience or their wish to do the right thing. It doesn’t work.

I am giving tools to combat other people’s selfishness while finding people with whom your personalities mirror each other in a dynamic that makes your relationship delicious and exciting for the both of you… And avoid situations where you’re the exciting but bored partner.

I target the Old Souls* because I am one, and as such, we have the most to gain from this. Out of our selfishness, we’ll find all of this very compelling. Not because we are good people, but because we’re somewhat tired of being THAT good people, and we can afford to reconsider some of our virtues and the end result of them.

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