You cannot decide on their behalf that they love you.

I know you don’t want to hear this. The reason why this person is constantly angry with you is not that you don’t love them enough or the right way; they are angry with you because you don’t take no for an answer. You’re effectively love-raping them. They don’t want you in their life. You are not what they’re looking for. You don’t match up with what they want.

They are not committing a crime by refusing to love you, you know. You are committing a crime by forcing your way into the bed of someone who doesn’t want you there, at least not anymore. You have to learn to take rejection for what it is – it is important for your safety.

This behavior is fairly rare for a man to exhibit these days, we’ve weeded it out pretty much by the root, so whenever this happens, it’s more than likely a woman who has made up her mind that a guy belongs to her and only her, despite his wishes. That is NOT the right thing to do. You cannot decide on behalf of a man – or a woman – that he or she is in love with you. You need consent, even to love someone.

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