You cannot insult a person by telling the truth about them

I have spent my freaking existence trying to hone my skill of INSULTING people by telling the truth about them. I am very good at saying the truth about people. The trouble is, you can’t insult a person by telling the truth about them, because they are who they are based on their own personal value system and ideals, and they will instantly change if their ideals change. The nastier I try to be, the more friends I make. They do not understand that I CRITICIZE THEM, in fact, they think I’m putting myself down when I point out how I am DIFFERENT, AKA, BETTER than them. Everybody is their own ideal person.

The more I try to EMPHASISE to a person how they are DIFFERENT from me, the more they think I’m begging them to HELP ME CHANGE to become LIKE THEM. *Vomit*

We assume that people are what they are because they don’t realize it. They do. Things are much worse.

WE THINK that if someone isn’t the way our ideals are, that they are UNAWARE of themselves being that way. So if we are NICE about it, we pretend not to notice what they are. Once we lose our temper, we start pointing out TRUTHS about them, and to any person, these facts are ALWAYS compliments. If you get it right, to any person, your intended insults based on the truth sound like the sweetest compliment to them… While you are needlessly putting yourself down, to boot.

You could be just as well saying: “But your hair is so shiny and lush, while look at my hair, my hair is dull and lifeless! How can you get your hair shine so?”

You can always insult a person with an untrue assumption, EVEN IF it is intended to be A KIND THING to say. “I bet you were hurting when your father belted you. It must have been awful.” “YOU ASSUME I AM WEAK?! You take me for a PUSSY?!”

The truth does not hurt.

Truth hurts, they say, but it TRULY UTTERLY DOESN’T. What hurts is an honest, but inaccurate ASSUMPTION. Whenever you make people angry is when you are so far off the truth you couldn’t find your way back home if you had a map. Getting to the truth will make people calm or cry in RELIEF. Someone seeing you in an authentic light is either highly pleasurable or relief, or perhaps, a completely neutral feeling if the person feels “well that’s obvious, isn’t it?”

WE ASSUME that when we get to the truth, these people will crumble into dust and cry in their shame, but to your surprise, they just laugh, or even WORSE, they seem to open up, or start treating you as their authentic friend when all you’ve tried is to express how much you effin’ despise them.

I’ve said the most AWFUL THINGS to my mother trying to point out to her why I have disowned her. All she hears is how JEALOUS of her I am… And frankly, the same is true in reverse. Only, she thinks I have POTENTIAL to be like the fucking field hog that she is. “Ah, you mean I am a field hog, like a natural person who enjoys herself in everyday life?” Not quite, mom, not quite, but you are in the vicinity, yes. If I try to get closer to the point, what she hears is me trying to emphasize how much I admire her.

You can certainly hurt someone’s public image with the truth

While you can most certainly hurt someone’s public image by telling the absolute truth about them, you cannot insult them with it. They will be OBLIVIOUS to the fact they are being berated with the truth, as it is THE TRUTH, their CHOSEN way of being. However, unaware as they might be, the PUBLIC will be judging them, but they will more than likely interpret it as JEALOUSY or FEAR of them.

Amber Heard is there thinking “OMG these bitches are jealous of me for having beaten up their beloved idol. Don’t they wish they could take such liberties with a man like that!”

What you can hurt people by is by openly admiring someone who is NOT like them.

If you want to stick it into people who you dislike, be open about who you truly admire and why. Ever since I’ve opened up about how much I love men, women have started to sound like Vampires caught in direct sunlight… In the spirit that is. They can’t effin’ stand it, and it is hilarious. I must say I enjoy it, even the part where they try their hardest to explain this disparity away; how can I admire men… Who doesn’t even… HAVE BOOBS?! How wrong can it be? How can I? Where is the justification for my admiration of the male gender?

OMG. I finally found my poison needle tipped in truth.

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