You can’t find love – love will find you.

HOW MANY TIMES have I heard that? And it took me to 50 years of age to finally agree that it is true. You can find your lovers in spirit, is an interesting thing, but you can’t get there until you… Relax, maybe? Give up? Stop caring… About yourself, that is, or the outcome. Once you let go.

Yeah, you deserve love. You’re good for it. You’re better looking than most people, smarter, richer, whatever. It doesn’t matter. You go look for love, and you’ll find a relationship, but true love, hardly. Your ideal job, even friends… You can’t look for them, you just… Ask and forget about it.

I hate that conclusion but it seems to be true. Stop your dating site subscriptions. They won’t amount to anything… At least if you’re hoping for love. Sex, yeah, maybe you get lucky as a side project… Maybe not.

And it doesn’t matter me saying this, you’ll bang your head against the wall for as long as you bang your head against the wall for, until your head breaks… Not the wall. I’m wasting my breath. It’s good news and bad news. Good news because I don’t have to teach you, because you won’t learn anyway. The bad news is that I’ve wasted so much time on two pointless pursuits: Teaching people spirituality and looking for love. You’ll learn when it’s time for you to learn. And after that, the best you’ll do with my texts is to agree with them.

All you do, looking for love and offering to teach people something, is that you tie desperados to yourself, your mutual desperation will hold you together while everything that is right for you eludes you. But you learn fastest when you teach… so… And maybe you’ll give them one or two grains of truth that they’ll actually accept while they ignore everything else you’ve said.

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