You don’t have to be a good person in order to be with your True Emotion Mirror

(This also applies to Twin Flames, despite the fact the teachers would disagree.)

You are the perfect half of your True Emotion Mirror. This doesn’t mean you are a perfect person or even a good person. You can be the worst person in history and still have a True Emotion Mirror, or, if you want to phrase it this way: you can still “be” a True Emotion Mirror – even though I don’t like that phrasing. It’s like calling yourself a wife or a husband before meeting your future spouse. Everybody “is” a True Emotion Mirror to somebody, so calling yourself a True Emotion Mirror is about as specific as calling yourself a human – accurate but not very helpful.

YOUR True Emotion Mirror, however, to you, is special. The reason is that they are a perfect match for you. They’re not perfect any more than you are, but you are perfect for each other, and in that sense, you’re both perfect – you’re weird and imperfect in the same way, in a compatible or mutually exciting way.

In addition, how “loving” and “caring” you are has no bearing on whether you’re someone else’s True Emotion Mirror. You could be the most perfect, most loving, charitable, chaste person in the world and still not have met your True Emotion Mirror. Whether true love has found you yet or not is not a matter of your virtue… Or theirs, or anyone else’s. You cannot buy this love with good deeds; you buy this love with honesty, authenticity, and self-awareness… And that can sometimes mean you’ll have to accept some unbecoming character traits that you are ashamed to truly like about yourself – or like being or doing… Or being done to you, mind you. (Yes, whatever you’re thinking about now, it applies; your True Emotion Mirror(s) and Precious Soulmates are your “willing victims,” or vice versa, but don’t make mistakes with who they might be.)

How much you “love” someone else is not the question I’m asking when seeking your True Emotion Mirror. I am asking how much you love EACH OTHER – without effort, not because you’re both “good people” but because you’re a perfect match. Because you find it IMPOSSIBLE NOT to love each other. To not love your True Emotion Mirror is as easy as it is for a human to breathe underwater.

You also don’t need to be good-looking, but your True Emotion Mirror is most often about as good-looking as you are. Your aesthetic values are a match, too, you see. They’re not “too” good-looking; they’re perfectly right by your measure. Therefore, if you’re in doubt and they’re even slightly less attractive than you are, the likelihood that your motivation to consider them to be your True Emotion Mirror is not an authentic reaction to their sex appeal but some form of halo-polishing. Whenever you’re halo-polishing, you’re doing something wrong for your True Emotion Mirror.

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