You don’t need to hold onto your True Emotion Mirror.

A True Emotion Mirror is not “yours” in the same way a dog is yours. You cannot put a leash on your True Emotion Mirror and tell everyone that this is your TrEmoR, keep away. (Well, you can if you’re into BDSM, but you know what I mean. :D) True Emotion Mirrors are not SIGNED for you the same way as a dog would be sold to you or a partner in an arranged marriage, just because it’s somewhat of a spiritual marriage and can be thought that “god” joined you, there is no reason to fear that God overlooked the wants and needs of one of you and only one of you has been given the right and pleasure of being happy in this relationship.

If they don’t come back…

There’s this quote from, I believe, Jonathan the Seagull;

“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back, they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were.”

Richard Bach

(Fantastic read that one. It was a special day when I read it and thought my mommy understood me after all, considering the years of discord and constant arguments… Then I realized that was a misunderstanding – how anybody could misinterpret the meaning of a book so fabulously is beyond me, but she did. LOL )

Maybe your dog will surprise you and not run off as soon as he’s got the chance.

Maybe you fear that your dog (your True Emotion Mirror, see) will run off to his real master or the freedom he craves if you take his leash off. You sit by a park bench, and you let him off the leash, but to your greatest surprise, instead of flying to get the fuck away from you and your stinking hands, he sits there, calmly by your side, like that’s where he’s meant to be. Because you are his world.

Maybe he’ll run around excited about you finally trusting him, exploring the world near you, but never once taking his attention from you. If you’d get up and walk away, he’d follow you, even if you never spend an hour training him to. THAT is what true love is about. You don’t have to train love to love. It just is.

You can let your dog (TrEmoR) off his leash for good, and even if he roams around the town all day, he’ll come back to you when he’s ready. True Emotion Mirrors in separation are a bit like that. Sometimes, there are things you need to do alone, but you KNOW when you’re done, you’ll come back to each other.

Try it.

Set the dog free.

They’ll come to  you as soon as they can, I promise.

And, if you haven’t found your dog yet in this lifetime, please trust the fact that a True Emotion Mirror does not need to be COAXED, let alone FORCED, to be with you. He or she wants you as much as you want them. They need you as much as you need them. Your True Emotion Mirror will come to you as fast as possible, even if it sometimes takes time. If they’re away, it’s not because you’re flawed. It’s because they need to do something before returning back to you. Maybe YOU need to do something before YOU can return back to them. See? You’re the same. It could be you who has stuff to do, and often, to get the stuff done, the True Emotion Mirror is waiting as your prize. You are their prize, they are yours.

But in some cases, you have to let go of a false love to get to the true love. Maybe that is your test. At any rate, you cannot both TRUST love and FEAR it’ll leave you if you don’t hold onto it. Obviously, trust is what you need to learn… But if you’re holding onto false love, it’s going to be a very tough lesson to learn when the wrong person flies away from you the first chance you give them… But you know, your TRUE Emotion Mirror never will. They never would if they could stay.

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