You gotta be prepared for a fight with a True Emotion Mirror – BUT DON’T PICK A FIGHT!!

True Emotion Mirrors can have their days on the battlefield for sure. It happens. They fight like cats and dogs at times. But the way they are, there is NO NEED to be testy or create drama out of nowhere to experience “big emotions” like you do with lesser soulmates. However, some people are so USED TO taking to relationships with the idea that drama belongs to great love (wherever the fuck they got that idea from I haven’t a clue… well I do, but that’s for later…) that they will CREATE DRAMA for the sake of drama, even to just show interest and readiness for a “real relationship”. However, a real relationship is handled a little bit differently, albeit the drama-dwellers have a point.

You cannot RUN

I just had a run-in with an Uncharted True Emotion Mirror of mine illustrating the point perfectly. He started the drama, blamed me for the drama, and then ran from the drama, in a matter of a week. I was watching a train wreck of a snake that eats it’s own tail and I’m just standing there going what that fuck is happening. What I want to be doing is to block him and move on. I don’t want this shit, right? Still, I cannot decide for him what he needs to do. I can TRY put some fucking sense into him, but even though I know everything there is about these relationships (pretty much) I can’t feel his feelings for him nor to deal with them. I can’t LISTEN on his behalf, can I, nor listen on my behalf if he isn’t talking.

Sure, I speak as if the relationship is over, as I’m trying to prepare myself for yet another one of life’s glorious disappointments, but maybe it isn’t. Still, the point being: What YOU CAN DO in your True Emotion Mirrors is to keep the door open for as long as he or she needs to walk back in through it. You can knock on your own open door at times, to remind them that the door is, actually, open.

People react to love with fear at times

Many, many people react to falling in love with absolute fear. You need to understand this whether you are the person who is afraid of the one who is seeing the reaction of their True Emotion Mirror – but particularly the latter. When you fall in love, you seem to lose control and power. If THEY are used to handling relationships by power and control of someone who loves them, they react with fear when THEY are the ones who fell in love, and they feel there’s always a power-balance; it’s either you or them who is in love and the one in love is the one who follows the other on their knees, with no freedom, no rights, no power – always reacting to any wish as it was a command – as disobedience leads to a breakup.

When they fear you, or their own weakness near you, they will easily start acting in unpredictable ways, and well, blame you for it. But this is somewhat of a point a finger at a person and you’re pointing 3 at yourself when they blame you for the shit they’d usually be guilty of in a relationship. If they’re the one in love, then you’re the one who doesn’t care, right? Everything they say about you, more than likely, is about them in regular, non- True Emotion Mirror relationships when THEY’ve been the one loved and holding the power… And who haven’t got an experience of mutual love in another lifetime, even… Or who have simply forgotten it.

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