You might not recognize your true lover in photos

There is a reason why you might not recognize your true lover in photos of them. Or, you might not like the way they’re behaving in videos with other people. This is because every true lover is DIFFERENT around their counterpart. People in love look at their true loves with a different expression on their face, we act differently, we FEEL different around them. It is almost certain that when you observe your true love interact with other people, you don’t like them as much, and it’s not even jealousy.

Nobody feels truly great around the people we don’t truly love (without exception)

Everybody is uneasy, agitated, irritated, sad, depressed, angry, disappointed, peeved, or otherwise suffering around people they are not in love with. We are more silent and quiet, or the opposite; more boisterous with people we don’t fit in with. We may be more shallow materialistic with the wrong people. It can also happen that we may be giving a lot of gifts, act overly charitably, or show others constant praise trying to win them over… Paying for our keep.

We may be withdrawn around people we don’t love, or we feel we have to be constantly trying to win approval or gain attention from them; to entertain, to help, to make feel good. We feel like we must be paying for our stay, or that we have to TOLERATE the presence of people we can’t get away from for whatever reason.

Obviously, the way we behave and carry ourselves will change compared to being around someone we truly feel connected to.

We all feel free to be ourselves near people we love (with exceptions)

With our true love, we are calm and relaxed, even when we are boisterously cracking jokes, or alternatively feeling safe to just chill and not make a huge fuss about ourselves. We feel AT HOME with our true lovers. We feel welcome, wanted – and more importantly, we feel like we WANT TO stay. When we look at our lovers, our facial expression changes. We look them in the eye like we wanted to take a swim in their brain. The curiosity in the eyes of a person in love is obvious. The need to DRINK that person in. We’re looking for answers in their eyes.

In the early stages, tho, early stages that may last for years or even lifetimes, it is normal to feel insecure about being welcome in the company of someone who seems like the biggest trophy in the world. Even when you feel like this, you tend to STARE your loved one a lot. You’re looking for the answers. “Am I loved by you, too? Do I get to stay? Do you want me? Will you let me love you with all the passion I feel for you? Am I allowed?” “AM I GOING CRAZY thinking you’re ACTUALLY in love with me?!”

(There are situations when true lovers feel the need to look away from each other, so their eyes don’t reveal them, or to avoid pain or the feeling of longing for that person.)

In photos, tho

Someone else took that photo. If you are not there, you may not even truly recognize that person as your loved one. They act differently around other people, and you may not even LIKE the way they are around others. They may be sucking up to other people, which is enough to drive you insane. Your true love may even seem flirty toward other people, because they feel like they need to signal they’re not the enemy, even if they’re not truly a friend, either. They maybe more submissive than they need to be. You might find them being more dominant than what you feel they authentically are. They may look into the camera with sad, depressed, disconnected eyes, where they always looked at you with eyes full of love and passion.

But also… This can reverse itself…

What if someone in a photo is photographed by a person they feel is attractive or lovable? If they look at the camera with genuine HEAT toward the person photographing them? Maybe they’re imagining their true love? Their expression changes… And you may feel loved by them because they’re looking at another person behind the camera with all love in their eyes…

There are some people who fall in love with a person who is in love with someone else because they recognize love in a person even if they didn’t cause it themselves. This is when people start to deceive themselves, but… If you don’t like your true love in the media… It’s probably a good sign – or you haven’t even recognized them as such yet. Or, your true love is the person arguing with you ALL THE TIME in the comments, because they KNOW you’re acting “wrong” somehow. This would be a person who you find incredibly attractive but you feel hurt and horrified they don’t even like you…

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