You shouldn’t think you’re less of a friend if you ALSO have sex.

There are some people who see sexual relationships as “less than” other friendships. To me, however, and I know to a lot of people, the sexual relationship is like Friendship+. Where every other relationship is limited to what is non-sexual, a sexual relationship has no expansion limits. You can be the best of friends AND have sex, whereas your best friend is NOT going to be going into the sexual category… Unless they are a friend +.

Of course, you can have a relationship that IS “just sex,” but sexual relationships should be automatically assumed to be “less than,” considering they can be literally “more than just friends.”

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