Your instinct of the “perfect person” maybe wrong…

Oh God, I am so sorry for writing this post. 😀 I hope it’ll help you let go of some people in case it hits, and I hope it won’t make you let go of the wrong people, as in the right people, if you understand me. This will give you a new level of worry about your True Emotion Mirror and a bunch of other people… But it has to be written. (I’ve been laughing hysterically for the last half an hour after realizing this.)

If your instinct says that you’ve met the perfect person, you are tapping into THEIR opinion of the matter, and may not match yours at all on closer inspection. You can start a conversation, and basically, everything you say to them trying to convince them that they’re a good person will sound like the biggest insult to them. They’ll try to say the same to you, and you’ll feel insulted. And STILL, you’re convinced there’s a misunderstanding. You MUST understand something incorrectly, no?

So different you believe each other to be exactly the same.

No. It’s just that your value systems are polar opposites. You are literally so different that you seem to be in perfect harmony. The perfect the Young Soul* and the perfect the Ravens* more than likely. You both believe yourselves to be more or less perfect as a person, and if you’re a Ravens*, a part of your perfection is the knowledge that you understand perfection to be subjective… But even you won’t realize exactly HOW subjective it is. The worst traits you can list in a person are a result of another person’s idea of perfection…

Therefore, the difference must be made LOGICALLY. You’ll have to go through your moral ideology point-by-point. What is moral, what isn’t. You’ll have to discuss what you admire and what you don’t admire.

Or just trust my Thinker Type tests and value questionnaires.

The thing is, though, if you simply “have a feeling” about someone but are not sure why, maybe it’s time to let go of them. Even if they were the perfect person, they might not be perfect for you. They may even be able to give you the right “rush” of love but with the worst ingredients on closer inspection. It’s a trick of the mind, THE trick of the mind that we all worry about anyway.

“I’ll be anything you want me to be.” “I’m  dominant enough to make you into anyone I want you to be.”

The Young Soul* Thinks perfection is either one of the two: They pride themselves on being utterly trainable or the perfect trainer. The latter has the perfect idea of what a perfect person is like, and they’re confident they can push anybody into that mold. At least anybody they’ll choose for the job.

Either of these forms of perfection will send a Ravens* hurling. To them, nothing could be further from perfection. Their perfection is a lot more complicated than that, but it always contains the ability to live true to themselves and allowing others to do the same.

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