Your self-improvements block your success

Your true character is like a fart. You can hold it in for a long time, but eventually, you will have to let it rip and then it stinks. For as long as you’re holding in whatever it is that you are holding in, you will not achieve success or fame, because you DEPEND on the people who made you a success, so if they are people who do not like you the way you are, once success hits and you show them your true nature, they’ll turn your back on you and you are headed for a big slippery slope back to bankruptcy (or a breakup, since this is a relationship, thing, too).

In reality, people know what you are, but the ones who don’t like you, won’t like you much more for pretending to be something you’re not – quite the opposite, they like you even less – and the people who love you for who you truly are are simply waiting for you to allow it out, why would they support your effort of being someone you’re not, when all they want is the real you?

Whatever it is that you are fighting about yourself is usually the opposite of what you are putting out at this time. If you like to brag, you might try and be humble and succeed, if you love to be pampered, you might be trying your best to be giving and caring, if you’re a hedonist, you might try to be living on as little as possible to teach yourself to be better… But all of that effort is acting against you, not for you.

Now, there are people who love braggers (I am one of them. I love it when people go all out on how much they love themselves! Saves me the trouble of lifting them up myself, a tiresome job.) There are people who like to pamper those who they love and hate to be toted on – again, me. And I also love a hedonist because they are sooo easy to pamper and make purr. On contrast, it’s really difficult to make someone happy when all they feel is guilt for the stuff you give to them or do for them.

Your success always relies on you being true to yourself. You can never reach true success by faking it or holding something back. You get all that you let out – and not an ounce extra. Don’t blame others for not seeing  you for who you truly are if you never wanted to let them see you, right?

Now… I will have to take my own advice, and I can tell you that it won’t be easy.

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