Your sexuality: “I freeze around the person I want” – what to do?

Do you find yourself freezing near the person that you want to attract? Like you would render back to the level of a 12-year old, not knowing what to do or say next, afraid to say the wrong thing? Yeah, I know what you’re going through. Your sexuality is blocked out from view because you feel it is too impolite, too presumptuous, or simply wrong to feel what you feel and you save the person you’re thinking about from your mind-filth. 😉 You know we’ve been conditioned to monitor our thoughts – the more serious you’ve been about your spirituality in your past lives, the more effect it has had on your sexuality, as they tend to always go hand in- hand. The more religious you’ve been, the more sexually suppressed you are now…

Men of all religious backgrounds, even the atheist tend to have the same problem. Men are not allowed to think certain things about women, so the natural reaction to such thought-banning is to block others from feeling these feelings. Even if you didn’t believe it was possible for others to feel your feelings, instinctively you will still freeze the access to your sexuality when you feel uncomfortable about it; you might feel too excited over too small thing, or you might want to do things to this girl that no sophisticated woman could ever even imagine… And you’re ashamed of yourself. Sexual suppression is always a sign of a truly active sexual imagination – a good thing.

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