Your stupidity is your own responsibility.

I say: “If you were in any way involved, even when it’s not your fault, it’s still your fault.” What this means, is that if you didn’t see it coming, it’s your fault it happened to you, even if what happened was the action of someone else you let in against your better judgment maybe. If you hire a person out of compassion or because it’s socially expected of you, and that person does something stupid, while they are the dumb person, and they carry their own responsibility of that, you’re responsible for being spineless enough to hire that person knowing he or she wasn’t really up to the task.

If you become guilty by association to a friends’ way of being, because you made a friend out of pity rather than genuine curiosity and interest in that person, it’s your fault what happens in that friendship – on your part. They’re still responsible for their own part, but that’s a part you don’t have control over.

And now; if someone misinterprets what you write because their IQ is that of a goldfish, it’s their fault. If you let them sit around and listen to you, and then misquote you to someone else, it was your fault you gave them the front seat to do so, making it seem like “they should know what you said.” Still, if someone interprets you incorrectly and mucks up their own life for themselves as a consequence, that’s their problem. Their responsibility. Their stupidity. You do your best to express yourself clearly enough and try not to get yourself mangled up by stupid people – particularly ones you’ve let too close to you but don’t worry about every idiot this world holds.

STILL; even when it’s not your fault it’s still your fault if you were involved in any way. You didn’t fix it. You didn’t think it through. You overlooked it. Those things are your fault. Human errors are not punishable, for they are unavoidable, but they are stuff you should try to fix or prepare for.

The question is: Did you do your best to interpret it right? Did you do your best to phrase it right? Did you do your best to cover all of your bases? Did you rush it? Did someone get hurt because you were lazy or irresponsible? Did you make it so complicated that no reasonable person could ever understand it correctly? These are questions I ask myself all the time. And, by the way, I am certainly guilty of rushing it – I’m afraid I’m running out of life here. If you think I’m infallible, that’s your stupidity, and you will be guilty of being gullible or too trusting if you take everything I say without thinking the first thing through.

I’m doing my best, but if you think you don’t need to think because I did, and you wind up doing something incredibly stupid… For instance, if you mimic me because you’re so fucking star-struck and count on me being the type of narcissist who would love you for being my exact copy, that’s your stupidity in motion. If I don’t see it coming, it’s my fault. But I see it. There’ll be people dumb enough to do whatever I do trying to impress me by being dumb as shit, and there’s not a damned thing I can do to stop them – that I can see. I’m trying, but I don’t know if I’m succeeding, so don’t count on that.

I can also see people who put their entire life in my hands expecting me to tell them exactly what to do without them having to think about it… STUPID. So fucking incredibly stupid! I will not hold them. I couldn’t if I wanted to, and I don’t even want to! What I’m doing is more than you could realistically ask any person to do for others. I’m doing my fair share many times over. THAT DOES NOT INCLUDE me doing your thinking for you, even though I’m helping you to do it. My services do not include me taking responsibility of other adults who I do not personally love – no matter how much they wanted me to. If you think I love you simply because I love humanity in general or because you love me like nothing else, and you think that automatically means we’re bonded, you’re dumb as shit and you’re going to get yourself mangled up as a consequence. That is not a threat, that’s simply a consequence I can see that you keep ignoring out of sheer stupidity.

That said, I don’t want my True Emotion Mirrors to now look at themselves funny. I don’t mean you. I’m meaning certain other individuals that keep hanging onto me like I was their long-lost mommy duck. And there will be more of those people I’m sure, but not as troublesome as these, as I’ve wisen up to keep my effin’ distance. What I also need to learn is to express rejection in a way they can accept. White lies. I need a white lie but damned, being a fucking chronic truth teller…

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