Your true friends and lovers love your ideal future vision of yourself… Not necessarily what you are now.

What you want and wish to be is, in some sense, more important about you than what you currently are. Obviously, you cannot just narcissistically make yourself believe you already are what you wish you were in the future and skip the work involved to get there, but what you wish you were, ultimately, is what you’re going to be, and thus, who your friends are should agree that future version of yourself is who they wish to be sharing their life with. You shouldn’t pick friends who wouldn’t want to be friends with the type of person you want to become in the future.

Don’t underestimate your friends and family members manifestation power regarding yourself. If they wish you were thriving for something other than what you wish to be, it’ll force you to work twice, trice as hard as you should otherwise, to stay on course even, and to ultimately make it. When I first heard a Law of Attraction guru hint to that direction, I wouldn’t say I liked the thought that we can’t be friends with people who think differently to us. Still, the fact is that if THEY cannot live with you being different from them, then they don’t truly love you for who you are but rather for who you pretend to be to make them feel more comfortable. It is also possible your current friends would accept you “pretending” to be something you’re not to “outsiders,” and they may well believe that’s what you’re doing if you are hanging out with “your betters” but they don’t truly believe that is who you really are… So… That’s a little unpleasant to see and accept as the way things are.

These people will also easily “plead for mercy” from your new friends: “She/he doesn’t really want to be that/do that, we know them, we’ve known them for their whole life, they’ve never acted this way before…” The likelihood you’ve never acted this way before is that you’ve never had even a hint of an opportunity to do so, but that doesn’t make it any less you. They may also interpret the motivations of your choices to be very different than what they were; for instance, it’s a very different thing to be clinging to every opportunity to speak with any random celebrity than to have a quiet wish to one day meet a very specific celebrity that lives nowhere near you, and who has no connection to you whatsoever.

What you are now is definitely not directly linked to who you know and are thought to be friends with, but it is very important to disassociate from people who don’t support and love you for your future vision of yourself.

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