Bear with me as I use the word ‘whore.’ 😀
Money is the biggest problem in relationships, as you may well know. The bigger your pay gap, the bigger the problem, perhaps. I’ve had nothing but money problems with my rich True Emotion Mirrors, and today, I finally hit the nail on the head: “You pay a whore, but you buy a wife!”
Payment is made to a temporary lover. A wife is supposed to be permanent. The wife is paid in flashy terms. “MINE.” A whore is paid discretely. Politely and with respect.
“As long as you wear MY dress.”
Another way we recently addressed this issue of me having money, too, was that we all realized that we don’t give gifts to each other; we’re married. No. “You wear MY suit, I wear YOUR dress.” You are mine; I am yours. I don’t give you anything; my possessions are my extension, and you live in me, and I live in you. As I wrap myself in the dress you own, I wrap your arm around me.
With the wrong person, this is icky. Disrespectful as it is, that’s just the thing: we LOVE IT when our true lover disrespects us. This is the difference between a true lover and a whore… Even if your true lover is officially your whore and your wife is truly the woman you merely pay.
If she, too, has money.
When your wife is equally wealthy (or wealthier than you) do you feel comfortable with that? Would you be happier, if you allowed her to buy you, too… To wrap you in extensions of herself?
It depends on how you want it.
Whether you pay or buy your wife is up to you, of course. The emotions you’ll experience will be very different with each. The reactions will be different. The woman you respect more should be your wife, but she isn’t always the one men respect more, is she?
Do you respect the woman for whom you pay more than the one you buy? That’s a question for you to answer.
It is related to this that I mean when I say: “A wife is often just a glorified whore.”
Figure it out.